Raden Ayu  Kartini, (21 April 1879 – 17 September 1904), or sometimes known as  Raden Ajeng Kartini, was a prominent Javanese and  an Indonesian  national heroine. Kartini is known as a pioneer in the area of women's rights for native Indonesians.
Kartini was born into an aristocratic  Javanese family in a time when Java was still  part of the Dutch colony,  the Dutch East Indies. Kartini's father, Raden  Mas Sosroningrat, became Regency Chief of Jepara,  and her mother was Raden Mas Sosroningrat's first wife, but not the most important  one. At this time, polygamy was a common practice among the nobility.
Kartini's father, R. M. A. A. Sosroningrat, was originally the  district chief of Mayong. Her mother was M. A. Ngasirah, the daughter of  Kyai Haji Madirono, a teacher of religion in Teluwakur, Jepara, and  Nyai Haji Siti Aminah. At that time, colonial regulations specified that  a Regency Chief must marry a member of the nobility and because M. A.  Ngasirah was not of sufficiently high nobility,  her father married a second time to Raden Ajeng Woerjan (Moerjam), a  direct descendant of the Raja of Madura. After this second  marriage, Kartini's father was elevated to Regency Chief of Jepara,  replacing his second wife's own father, R. A. A. Tjitrowikromo.
Kartini was the fifth child and second eldest daughter in a family of  eleven, including half siblings. She was born into a family with a  strong intellectual tradition. Her grandfather, Pangeran Ario  Tjondronegoro IV, became a Regency Chief at the age of 25 while  Kartini's older brother Sosrokartono was an accomplished linguist.
Kartini's family allowed her to attend school until she was 12 years  old. Here, among other subjects, she learn to speak fluent Dutch, an unusual accomplishment for Javanese women at the  time.  After she turned 12 she was 'secluded' at home, a common practice among  Javanese nobility, to prepare young girls for their marriage. During  seclusion girls were not allowed to leave their parents' house until  they were married, at which point authority over them was transferred to  their husbands. Kartini's father was more lenient than some during his  daughter's seclusion, giving her such privileges as embroidery  lessons and occasional appearances in public for special events.
During her seclusion, Kartini continued to educate herself on her own. Because Kartini could speak Dutch, she acquired several Dutch pen friends. One of them, a girl by the name of Rosa Abendanon, became her very close friend. Books, newspapers and European magazines fed Kartini's interest in European feminist thinking, and fostered the desire to improve the conditions of indigenous women, who at that time had a very low social status.
Kartini's omnivorous reading included the Semarang  newspaper De locomotief, edited by Pieter Brooshooft, as well as  leestrommel, a set of magazines circulated by bookshops to  subscribers. She also read cultural and scientific magazines as well as  the Dutch women's magazine De Hollandsche Lelie, to which she  began to send contributions which were published. From her letters, it  was clear that Kartini read everything with a great deal of attention  and thoughtfulness. The books she had read before she was 20 included Max  Havelaar and Love Letters by Multatuli.  She also read De Stille Kracht (The Hidden Force) by Louis Couperus, the works of Frederik van Eeden, Augusta de  Witt, the Romantic-Feminist author Mrs. Goekoop  de-Jong Van Beek and an anti-war novel by Berta von Suttner, Die Waffen  Nieder! (Lay Down Your Arms!). All were in Dutch.
Kartini's concerns were not just in the area of the emancipation of  women, but also the problems of her society. Kartini saw that the  struggle for women to obtain their freedom, autonomy and legal equality  was just part of a wider movement.
 Kartini's parents arranged her marriage to Raden Adipati  Joyodiningrat, the Regency Chief of Rembang,  who already had three wives. She was married on the 12 November 1903.  This was against Kartini's wishes, but she acquiesced to appease her  ailing father. Her husband understood Kartini's aims and allowed her to  establish a school for women in the east porch of the Rembang Regency  Office complex. Kartini's only son was born on September 13, 1904. A few  days later on September 17, 1904, Kartini died at the age of 25. She  was buried in Bulu Village, Rembang.
Kartini's parents arranged her marriage to Raden Adipati  Joyodiningrat, the Regency Chief of Rembang,  who already had three wives. She was married on the 12 November 1903.  This was against Kartini's wishes, but she acquiesced to appease her  ailing father. Her husband understood Kartini's aims and allowed her to  establish a school for women in the east porch of the Rembang Regency  Office complex. Kartini's only son was born on September 13, 1904. A few  days later on September 17, 1904, Kartini died at the age of 25. She  was buried in Bulu Village, Rembang.Inspired by Kartini's example, the Van Deventer family established  the Kartini Foundation which built schools for women, 'Kartini's  Schools' in Semarang in 1912, followed by other women's schools  in Surabaya,  Yogyakarta, Malang, Madiun, Cirebon  and other areas.
In 1964, President Soekarno declared Kartini's birth date, 21 April, as  'Kartini Day' - an Indonesian National Holiday. This decision has been  criticized. It has been proposed that Kartini's Day should be celebrated  in conjunction with Indonesian Mothers Day, on 22 December so that the  choice of Kartini as a national heroine would not overshadow other women  who, unlike Kartini, took up arms to oppose the colonisers.
In contrast, those who recognize the significance of Kartini argue  that not only was she a feminist who elevated the status of women in  Indonesia, she was also a nationalist  figure, with new ideas who struggled on behalf of her people, including  her in the national struggle for  independence.
Kartini Ideas
In her letters, Kartini wrote about her views of the social  conditions prevailing at that time, particularly the condition of native  Indonesian women. The majority of her letters protest the tendency of  Javanese Culture to impose obstacles for the development of women. She  wanted women to have the freedom to learn and study. Kartini wrote of  her ideas and ambitions, including Zelf-ontwikkeling,  Zelf-onderricht, Zelf-vertrouwen, Zelf-werkzaamheid and Solidariteit.  These ideas were all based on Religieusiteit, Wijsheid en Schoonheid,  that is, belief in God, wisdom, and beauty, along with Humanitarianisme  (humanitarianism) and Nationalisme  (nationalism).
Kartini's letters also expressed her hopes for support from overseas.  In her correspondence with Estell "Stella" Zeehandelaar, Kartini  expressed her desire to be like a European youth. She depicted the  sufferings of Javanese women fettered by tradition, unable to study,  secluded, and who must be prepared to participate in polygamous  marriages with men they don't know.
Kartini also expressed criticisms about religion.  She questioned why the Quran must be memorised and  recited without an obligation to actually understand it. She also  expressed the view that the world would be more peaceful if there was no  religion to provide reasons for disagreements, discord and offence. She  wrote "Religion must guard us against committing sins, but more often,  sins are committed in the name of religion."
Kartini also raised questions with the way in which religion provided a justification for men to pursue polygamy. For Kartini, the suffering of Javanese women reached a pinnacle when the world was reduced to the walls of their houses and they were prepared for a polygamous marriage.
It is known from her letters dated October 1902 to Abendanon  and her husband that at the age of 23, Kartini had a mind to live a  vegetarian life. "It has been for sometime that we are thinking to do it  (to be a vegetarian), I have even eaten only vegetables for years now,  but I still don't have enough moral courage to carry on. I am still too  young." Kartini once wrote.
She also emphasized the relationship between this kind of lifestyle  with religious thoughts. She also quoted, "Living a life as vegetarian  is a wordless prayer to the Almighty."
Kartini loved her father deeply although it is clear that her deep  affection for him became yet another obstacle to the realization of her  ambitions. He was sufficiently progressive to allow his daughters  schooling until the age of 12 but at that point the door to further  schooling was firmly closed. In his letters, her father also expressed  his affection for Kartini. Eventually, he gave permission for Kartini to  study to become a teacher in Batavia (now Jakarta),  although previously he had prevented her from continuing her studies in  the Netherlands or entering medical school in Batavia.
Kartini's desire to continue her studies in Europe was also expressed  in her letters. Several of her pen friends worked on her behalf to  support Kartini in this endeavour. And when finally Kartini's ambition  was thwarted, many of her friends expressed their disappointment. In the  end her plans to study in the Netherlands were transmuted into plans to  journey to Batavia on the advice of Mrs. Abendanon that this would be  best for Kartini and her younger sister, Rukmini.
 Nevertheless, in 1903 at the age of 24, her plans to study to become a  teacher in Batavia came to nothing. In a letter to Mrs. Abendanon,  Kartini wrote that the plan had been abandoned because she was going to  be married... "In short, I no longer desire to take advantage of this  opportunity, because I am to be married..". This was despite the  fact that for its part, the Dutch Education Department had finally given  permission for Kartini and Rukmini to study in Batavia.
Nevertheless, in 1903 at the age of 24, her plans to study to become a  teacher in Batavia came to nothing. In a letter to Mrs. Abendanon,  Kartini wrote that the plan had been abandoned because she was going to  be married... "In short, I no longer desire to take advantage of this  opportunity, because I am to be married..". This was despite the  fact that for its part, the Dutch Education Department had finally given  permission for Kartini and Rukmini to study in Batavia.As the wedding approached, Kartini's attitude towards Javanese traditional customs began to change. She became more tolerant. She began to feel that her marriage would bring good fortune for her ambition to develop a school for native women. In her letters, Kartini mentioned that not only did her esteemed husband support her desire to develop the woodcarving industry in Jepara and the school for native women, but she also mentioned that she was going to write a book. Sadly, this ambition was unrealized as a result of her premature death in 1904 at the age of 25.
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